Dear future husband, this is my ‘fake’ wedding…


I am going to do the weird girl post of what I wish for my wedding in the future, I am a single girl and of course as a single girl in your mid to late 20’s you see lots of your friends becoming engaged or in long term relationships and you’re sat there as I am now watching Bridget Jones thinking …….. bugger. It has definitely become more apparent to me that I feel like I HAVE to meet someone. Of course we all have dreams as to what the day should look like, how we should feel… so, I therefore thought I would put together a group of photographs as to what my ideal wedding  would be (in my head!).

The dress: 

As someone who is a size 18 you really do not want a dress to make you look even “bigger” than you do in a daily life, you want to feel beautiful and just desirable, you want to feel special. I have looked at lots of different designs (yes I am that sad!) and I have come up with my top six , I am not going to write about them or tell you as to why I love them – I would just like you to have a look…. although it does seem I have a theme haha!!

The Shoes:

I am if you have not read previous blogs a lover of shoes, I would prefer if we would all walk around bare footed or in socks but then again I wouldn’t want my feet going in any needles or lots of rocks haha. But shoes are essential for the wedding, I have the idea of course from other brides that heels are not a thing to wear, great to look at but that’s about it, you need to dance the night away a lot of time on your heels and if you aren’t drunk there is going to be pain. I love the idea of messages on the soles of the shoes, that’s so cute!! Here’s a selection of high and flat shoes.

The Bridesmaids:

I haven’t thought how many bridesmaids I would have or even would I would chose for that matter – I also know that through my friends most of the time they hate the dress up so I would like something that they are comfortable to be in, but in order to work with the theme the bridesmaids would need to carry either a pastel colour or a bold blue/green – NEVER RED, and this is what I think:

The Groom:

The Groom can do as he wishes, as long as he is smart and he has a tiewhich is the same colour as the theme of the wedding. There is too much emphasis on it being the brides decision but the groom is there as well, if he is not there there is no wedding. I also think that one of the most special things to do at a wedding is to not look at the bride coming down the aisle, I love to look at the groom. I think its one of the most raw emotions you can see, and it really makes my heart melt.

So here is some pictures of some gorgeous groom suits that I just think oooh hello 😉 :

PS  a man in a suit is just the best look!!

Trinkets and the look:

Each wedding is unique to that couple, so as I do not know who the mystery man is yet and what the similarities we have together – these are all mine. I do seem to love the more rustic look, but they all look amazing.


But at the end of the day, you are marrying your best friend, the one that is going to be there for you forever, the one that makes you smile everyday, the one that gives you the best hugs and the one that allows you to be you and makes you laugh everyday. No matter how much money you spend on a wedding, as long as you find the one that you truly love and is your missing puzzle piece, that’s all that matters isn’t it? Here are some beautiful images I found of love:

Hope that you enjoyed this, I did and now I feel rubbish as I am single 😦 boo. To those who are getting married, I hope that you have the most amazing day and life, I hope that it is full of love, happiness and laughter.

To all of us single girls, we can make it work.

P.S, just realised I am going to have loads of wedding adverts now pop up everywhere I go on the internet, cheers past me!


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