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Other people’s opinion of me.


Hi everyone I know I haven’t blogged in ages, I have wanted to but I just haven’t had that oomph to. You know those blogging slumps you can get into .  So I am trying to get back into it.

In the mean time I do love instagram, so if you do want to follow me please head over to Instagram.com/loveyouandthem.

Anyway back to the heading of this title, it’ll be a quick blog post to read so, here it goes!

Over the past few months I have noticed how people are quite blatant with their opinions of me. When I don’t know someone or am I’m a night out for example, I am quiet. Not because I’m scared to talk, but because I’m listening, I am gathering my opinions of these people who I am with and people seem to take some sort of offence to this.

Other options are with my close group of friends, maybe because I am too independent nowadays that I have different opinions. I am a positive person and I prefer to listen to others than to argue. I don’t do confrontation.

I thought I’d list (for my own personal mental state) the things that I have heard about myself from others lately. Some are nice for me to hear and some are in my opinion so wrong:

  • Nice
  • Boring
  • Quiet
  • Mute
  • Too responsible
  • Rude
  • Organised
  • Kind
  • Up tight
  • Cheeky
  • Funny
  • Dull

You will see that they are a mixture of words being used to describe me. Some are nice and some are just so wrong about me.

At the time I take it to heart, then give me a couple of hours I’m like this:

This is just an amazing quote. Why let others opinion determine how you feel about yourself. You know the true you, and the true personality.

Argh. And breathe. 

2 thoughts on “Other people’s opinion of me.

  1. Yes! We often need to care less about what others think about us or think they know about us, and just care about ourselves more 🙂

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