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Its one day out of many. Be happy.

Life is a bit of a struggle sometimes isnt it? We all put so much expectations on ourselves, we all strive to the best whether in personal life or work life, we all pit each other against each other, no matter how much you say you don’t. How and why did we become all so stressed?

If you remember the little things in life:

  • I am alive
  • I am breathing
  • I have love around me
  • I have a roof over my head
  • I have the love of family around me
  • I have the love of friends around me
  • I have food (even if they’re scraps) in the kitchen
  • I have got out of bed today

Anything else is extra, anything else is an award that someone else may not have been given that day.

Just remember next time you are feeling a bit down, you’ve got loads to look forward to. You may be having a bit of a shit day, but it really isnt a shit life, its 24 hours out of thousands upon thousands of ours in your life.

  • Laugh as much and as loud as you want
  • Wear what you want
  • Look like what you want to look
  • Love who you love
  • Eat all the chocolate you feel like (it’s going to go off otherwise!!)
  • Learn to relax (even check out my chill out zone https://loveyouandthem.com/chill/)



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10 things I learnt about growing up 

I am getting to the stage in life where either most of my friends are engaged, married, going to have babies, are parents or going through relationship breakups because they haven’t lasted since the start of their 20’s. I am in my late 20s now, and it is a bit of a strange age, for me personally I still feel like im 21 and it still feels as though I left Uni last year and not nearly 10 years ago. It made me realise what the hell have I learnt really, and what I could have said to myself all those years ago. Continue reading “10 things I learnt about growing up “

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Other people’s opinion of me.


Hi everyone I know I haven’t blogged in ages, I have wanted to but I just haven’t had that oomph to. You know those blogging slumps you can get into .  So I am trying to get back into it.

In the mean time I do love instagram, so if you do want to follow me please head over to Instagram.com/loveyouandthem.

Anyway back to the heading of this title, it’ll be a quick blog post to read so, here it goes! Continue reading “Other people’s opinion of me.”

health · life

Having a few down days.

Ever have those days where you just feel like shit? Where you just don’t want to talk to anyone? Where you would rather stay in bed and just hide away?

That’s definitely how I have been feeling lately.

I don’t know where it’s come from, but I just feel so blah. It’s totally not like me.

I know I have been having a lot of shitty times with my health lately, I’ve dealt with obstacles I don’t normally deal with, but I just don’t have the energy to speak to even my best friends. That REALLY isn’t me.

I feel in pain due to my illness, fed up because of it, angered as well with frustration. Not feeling self confident at all, disliking my look at the moment and just want to change.

I understand that there are worse people out there, those who feel sad every day, but I’m just so tired. Also got a banging headache and tinnitus at the moment which just is….amazing.

My blog is often positove, so I’m sorry guys. 

Anyway keep sharing the love. 


blogging · life

Have I ran out of love for blogging?

Hello you lovely people, it’s me, yes me, the one that hardly blogs lately.

I realised the other day that I haven’t blogged in nearly 1 month now, weird to think considering I spent nearly 2 months blogging daily.

But it’s not that I have don’t have the passion to blog anymore it’s that I’ve got so many ideas, thoughts and feelings, I honestly don’t know where to start.

As usual, let’s break this down – here we go: Continue reading “Have I ran out of love for blogging?”

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Day 18: what I like about being a female

Yesterdays women’s marches across the world really made me think about how great women are as a sex and how we fight for and support each other. Now I have already wrote about what like most about men, so don’t say I’m being biased!
I therefore thought I’d put together a collection of what j like about being female.

So, here we go: Continue reading “Day 18: what I like about being a female”

blogging · life

Day 16 blog challenge: things you regret in life. 

Regrets, I’ve had a few….. sorry I’ve now got frank sinatra in my head haha. I do think we absolutely need to have regrets in our life. How can we learn from our mistakes, our misjudgement, and our history? That’s what makes us really isn’t it?

I absolutely do have a few regrets in life and some affected me in a big way.

So here we go: Continue reading “Day 16 blog challenge: things you regret in life. “