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Why are SOME men absolute dicks?

hello lovely readers, I hope your weekend is going well and everyone is having a great time!

So the post this week, I have been putting off for sometime. But in recent news events coming to light I thought I would share my latest experiences.

Now, don’t get me wrong I have titled this blog post as “why are some men absolute sucks?”, as I am categorically not grouping all men as the same. But the guys that I have come across lately are absolute dicks. They think only with their dicks, I mean they may as well have their brain in their dick. I am also not saying that not all girls are innocent either, some women can be absolutely horrid to men, I know this as I’ve had many male friends come to me with their ex girlfriend stories.

But this is my story, no one elses. Ps this is a blog ranting blog with quite a bit of swearing.

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Why do I fear being in a relationship?

So, this is a post that I have been putting off writing for years, and I literally mean years. I’m hoping that by writing it, it will clear away so many thoughts in my head, or even just some weight off my shoulders.

I suck at relationships/ people liking me.

There I said it. I’m so bored of it. I thought I would write down all of the thoughts in my head… here we go: Continue reading “Why do I fear being in a relationship?”

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10 things I learnt about growing up 

I am getting to the stage in life where either most of my friends are engaged, married, going to have babies, are parents or going through relationship breakups because they haven’t lasted since the start of their 20’s. I am in my late 20s now, and it is a bit of a strange age, for me personally I still feel like im 21 and it still feels as though I left Uni last year and not nearly 10 years ago. It made me realise what the hell have I learnt really, and what I could have said to myself all those years ago. Continue reading “10 things I learnt about growing up “

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Day 18: what I like about being a female

Yesterdays women’s marches across the world really made me think about how great women are as a sex and how we fight for and support each other. Now I have already wrote about what like most about men, so don’t say I’m being biased!
I therefore thought I’d put together a collection of what j like about being female.

So, here we go: Continue reading “Day 18: what I like about being a female”

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Day 17: What I like about the opposite sex


Firstly, before I start this blog post you will see that my little blog has had a redesign. Yay yippee!! I am hoping that this will fix a lot of issues, easier to use, you may search for different topics and get to know me more. Also my signature has changed too!

This is a bit of a weird topic really, haha I was and still am trying to rack my brains as to what is good about the opposite sex. It’s not like I do not have a list at all, I do but it’s not as long as I would like (hahaha ooh innuendo). I will really try NOT to come across as sexist, as im sure someone will say, but these are innocent comments.

So, as always here we go!:

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Day 9 blog challenge: things to say to your ex

Wayhey nearly getting onto the happy subjects haha!

We’ve all been there haven’t we? we’ve all had the heart break, the pain, the memories shattered and the idea of not feeling good enough.

Wouldn’t it be amazing if further down the line you can say whatever you want to your ex.

So, here we go!: Continue reading “Day 9 blog challenge: things to say to your ex”

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Everyone deserves to be loved.

wp-1480438773059.jpgSo here’s something, the other day I was having a chat with a number of people and we were all discussing relationships etc, who’s single, who’s in a relationship and who’s married.

Now it’s coming to the point in various friendship groups of mine that they often glaze over me, when discussing about future relationships. I have seen this happen more and more even with my girl friends, and it’s a right bugger sometimes.

Sometimes I think ha ha that’s funny, yes I have been single for many years etc but then sometimes that actually really hurts. It’s kind of like they’re going, oh we won’t bother with her she has been single so long, even we have given up on her.

The other night, there were two singletons in the room and the group were discussing us. One of my friends saw on my Facebook that had have been talking to a boy/lad/man (let’s say) and I’ve been trying to keep it private for some time. Then suddenly they were all interested and honestly we just chatting at the moment, then mid way through many saying “I hope you get a boyfriend soon”, one blurted “no I don’t think so, I hope …..insert name….. gets a boyfriend before her”.This person was deadly serious.

I mean, kick a girl when she is down!!!

It really took me aback and made me think, yes of course the other person should find love, but why should someone find love over someone else?

We all deserve love, we all deserve happiness no matter your size, shape, height, ability, race, and sex.

What do you think?

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Dear future husband, this is my ‘fake’ wedding…


I am going to do the weird girl post of what I wish for my wedding in the future, I am a single girl and of course as a single girl in your mid to late 20’s you see lots of your friends becoming engaged or in long term relationships and you’re sat there as I am now watching Bridget Jones thinking …….. bugger. It has definitely become more apparent to me that I feel like I HAVE to meet someone. Of course we all have dreams as to what the day should look like, how we should feel… so, I therefore thought I would put together a group of photographs as to what my ideal wedding  would be (in my head!). Continue reading “Dear future husband, this is my ‘fake’ wedding…”