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My little blog & to my readers.

7967fe297b19d2b9b51419a7c8a2c706I originally set this blog up in December thinking that I would use it to air my opinions that I cannot say to others, to rant, to rave and just to have a good old natter with myself really haha!!

I never thought I would see the day when it was featured on a UK clothing brand facebook site, in which it was visited by over 300 people in one day. I remember that day clearly because my internet was not working on my phone and I had to wait until the end of my shift to find out as to what the hell was going on!! I still to this day can’t quite believe that.

I try to stay as anonymous as possible, because I still do not want many people that I know to find out about this blog. It is like my secret getaway. My twitter if you do follow me, is an extra twitter. I have my own personal one, and I have noticed over the past few months I have been using my loveyouandthem account more than my personal haha! I just find it amazing how people with the same loves, likes, dislikes can get on so well, its like we may all never meet but its like a pen pal situation – people are always there if you need them.

Anyway the point behind this post is that I have just seen how my little blog of mine is about to hit 10,000 views…. 10,000 views with nearly 200 followers on here and near 400 on bloglovin. I just think, why are people reading my rubbish lol! If I put a smile on someones face then that is seriously that all that matters to me.

We all started off somewhere

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Keep smiling and remember:

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I’m phoneless!

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So over the weekend I woke up to find that my beautiful Samsung S3 had stopped working. It was completely not wanting to play at all and I just felt like I had lost my partner in crime. I have had this phone for 22 months (I say this because im 2 months from the end of my contract) – I have dropped it from heights onto hard tiled floors, its been dropped like I said so many times I cannot even tell you how many times and it has never ever broken on me. I therefore thought f*ck it, I’ll go to carphone warehouse were I was greeted by someone who didn’t really want to work there and thank god it was still under warranty. I had to say goodbye to my phone as it wouldn’t come back the same….. it’s been 2 days and my life is different – it’s really quite sad (not emotional sad!)

So therefore I will not be blogging a lot in the next few weeks because I have no real access to internet or to photos.

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Twitter Moan

 

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I love talking to fellow bloggers on Twitter, I love getting their input, their advice and finding more and more people like me that have the same interests as me, that’s brilliant. Nearly every other day now, I send out a tweet in which I want to see as many people’s blogs as I can and I spend about 5 minutes or more on each blog looking through them, some I favourite but all I follow. There are some days in which I get over 25 tweets and that’s a long time doing what I do lol!

With each blog link sent to me, I tweet them back individually about how I love the blog and say that I am following etc. I then RT their original tweet they sent to me as well as doing a further tweet saying “follow this person at their @twitter account with their blogger URL and/or their bloglovin account and the reason why”.

Sometimes I get a thank you and an RT or a favourite which is absolutely amazing, I am not faulting that at all, but wow I would just love a follow as well or even a tweet to say “follow @loveyouandthem …. etc etc”. If anyone did what I did to them, I would RT them, favourite them and ask my followers to follow them too.

We’re all here together trying to make each blog of our own popular, have higher amount of views, followers etc.

Is it just me, or am I too nice?

ps – if you wish for me to tweet about your blog please just tweet me at @loveyouandthem

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Whenever I am down I turn to Vine….

Whenever I am feeling down at the moment or I just need a lift me up I look to Vine, but my absolute favourite vine team is Ben, Abbie and Harley – Dr Harley.

He is the cutest little boy in the entire world, if he does not put a smile on your face then there is something wrong with you.

They do not only have Vine – https://vine.co/benphillipsofficial  https://vine.co/abbabubble  but they also have youtube – https://www.youtube.com/user/FollowTheKPs

and of course other areas such as instagram and snap chat. Twitter – https://twitter.com/FollowTheKPs

Their family is perfect, he is constantly smiling -Ben is a brilliant dad and Abbie is an amazing Mum, the love is just beaming through all their videos.

Go on give it a try and like I said if you don’t smile then booooo.

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Check out my other babble sites

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So I do have other sites as well that you may be interested in, I thought that if you want to check them out please do – lay back (if in bed or on sofa) grab some chocolate and/or alcohol (my choices of course, does not have to be yours – go all healthy have a carrot stick) and see whether any of these interest you.

My Tumblr – loveyouandthem.tumblr.com  my tumble account shows all the beautiful men and women in the world that I love.

My Bloglovin – https://www.bloglovin.com/loveyouandthem if you can’t follow me on here because someone hasn’t thought of a way in which everyone can follow each other on one platform this is the place 🙂

My Askme – http://ask.fm/loveyouandthem – ask me any question it links up with my Twitter

My Twitter – https://twitter.com/loveyouandthem – my twitter feed is on my blog but if you ever want to send me your links on there please do, i check each one out and will RT to my followers 🙂

xo

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Follow me on Tumblr

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Hello!

As well as having this blog, I also have a Tumblr which I try to update daily.

My Tumblr is often filled with beautiful humans basically, whether they are men or women. They are people who I find to be just wonderful to look at.

My Tumblr is definitely a place in which I want to express the norms of society of beautiful and what the norm should be!

If you want to have a look please do:

loveyouandthem.tumblr.com 

And of course follow, if you like it. I always follow back unless you are promoting anorexia – I will unfortunately never follow such blogs, I have unfortunately done in the past and the photos made me very upset.

Other places you may wish to follow me:

 

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The book of Face.

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What has Facebook resorted to?

It used to be one of the best places to communicate with people after leaving somewhere, or not having someone’s number, a quick and easy way to say hello. My time at Uni was the best place for this, keeping up to date with my friends at home, talking to my parents and just uploading photos to share with loved ones (although some I am now regretting), nowadays it’s all about stalking your exes, ex friends, reposting this photo because someone somewhere wants a kitten and no one actually having a conversation.

Facebook it seems to be somewhere where you collect a list of friends, watching whatever they do; updating stupid look at me statuses, uploading photos of their car, babies or themselves in that stupid pose shown above. You have this urge to although however much they annoy you to keep these people on your list, whether looking at their downward spiral makes you feel good about your own life, or just because you’re a nosey bugger. The feeling you get after “unfriending them” is a weird one, its a mixture of guilt and freedom. The guilt comes when you next see them and they know that you have unfriended them, I have had it when I have gone to look for someone on my list to talk to them and they have unfriended me, I mean yes sure you do go through the “what the hell have I done to them” phase, then you think ah well my closest friends are my real ones.

Another annoying thing about Facebook, and its not the game requests its THE PEOPLE:

the stalker:

this is the person who stalks what people are doing and bring it up at a later date, the person who never posts anything and is just in the background. These are also the people who stalk their exes or their ex friends, to see what type of life they are leading now, whether they are missing you or having a better life without you.

the attention:

‘oh my god, my life is awful’, ‘im so ill’, ‘someone text me’ or having the same status updates every 3 days on repeat. Along this section would be the people who post the photos of themselves, posing in a mirror pouting away and then editing it with the caption “i look rough here but i dont care what you think” then 5 minutes later put up a status update of “oh my god im so lonely”, GET out and meet people.

love:

single, relationship, single, relationship, single, relationship… seriously, no wonder the bloody divorce rate is up if all you’re going to do is annoy your partner on facebook with the threat of going single and not talking it through. As well as this, the people who are forever in relationships, ie those who are never single and if and when they are they complain about the opposite sex or moan about others in relationships. The single person who is constantly updating their status updates, photo uploads about how annoyed they are about being single.

lecturer:

you know those particular individual who feel it is their duty to comment on politics, environment, money, religion and that only their view is the best. annoying.

gullible:

“share/like/comment” if you feel that this person needs a new kitten, can rescue this person from cancer (a like will not do this, donating money will – I have nothing against people who are promoting the help for cancer, but doing these things will not help cancer). Share if you support our troops – of course you support them, support them in other ways.

technophobes:

updating a status “how do I do this?, how do I do that?” either find out for yourself or google it. That’s how I have learnt.

the annoying ones:

my least favourite of them all, the people who comment and like on EVERYTHING that you post. The simplest update you do, they have to comment and question about what it is about. I am sorry, mr nosey fucker did I ask you to comment on this. When I am uploading music videos/photos in which I like onto MY wall, why do you comment on it and say “this is rubbish, this is better”. I am a nice person, I do not want to block you, but you will be blocked soon.

the unaware ones:

you know these are the people who see a comment that someone else has done on your wall and decides to comment onto it or like it, as well as this these are the people who seem to think its okay to comment on a photo with loads of likes on it – this means that ALL those people then receive a notification. I believe the worst of these types of people are those like I have already said who comment on something someone else has already done and then starts a conversation with another person who also thinks its a brilliant idea to comment on that post. Just absolutely ridiculous.

the ones who share:

hmmm, I can be known to do this – sharing links, photos, videos from sites which they found to be amazing, funny, pretty, true etc. They sometimes can be aimed at someone in their friendship feed, how they are feeling that day or just random. It is often the case when the rest of your facebook could not give a damn as to what you put on there. Just be aware lol!

Anyway, thats my rant over for today it does seem Facebook just seems to be getting more and more ridiculous.

I dont know, maybe it’s just me.

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