Do not surround yourself with negative people.

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I have learnt over the past few years and especially the last few months that negative people really shouldn’t be in my life. They drag you down, they drag the people around you down and they certainly can ruin someone’ day.

When someone is in a negative environment, surrounded by negativity that’s all what that person can see. When you move away from that environment and visit back now and again and still see these said people in the same emotions, you kind of just feel sorry for them. Sorry that they haven’t had the experience of coming out of that negativity, sorry that they won’t listen to anyone else’s opinions because they’re so warped by others.

Sometimes you just need to break free, you need to let go of your forced negativity to find out what makes you happy. There’s no shame in walking away, there’s no shame in not listening, there’s no shame in saying “no this is not for me”, but you will drain yourself if you keep thinking negatively and you will definitely drain yourself emotionally and mentally if you keep trying to give them positive thoughts……… they are not going to listen.

Be you and be free.


You turn 18 then suddenly you’re nearly 28.


Is it just me or when I was 18, I honestly thought 10 years later my life would really be different.  When I was 18 life was much more relaxed, I thought I was going to be friends with the people I loved at that time, and I thought my future self would be very different.

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It’s okay to cry you know.

cryPretty much everyone nowadays wants you to be happy in your life, they want you to see the positive in all aspects of your life. This could be that they truly want that for you, or you want to be positive to others, but sometimes underneath it all, it could be that either we don’t want to talk or we don’t want to listen.¬† Continue reading “It’s okay to cry you know.”