Judge Judge Body Image Judge Judge – Be You.

bodyimageWe all have hang ups, we all have body confident days and we are all judge every single day. No matter what you think we are all being judged and we judge others as well, as much as you try not too – you may judge to be positive or negative. Now my favourite song at the moment is Meghan Trainor’s All About That Bass, which celebrates being “curvy” and being body confident. I know as a “curvy/fuller figured” girl that I was highly pissed off on X Factor, when a thinner girl with killer abs was singing the lyrics. But only because I am proud to have a “bit of meat” on me. It did get me thinking, there are so many photos that say “curvy is what the man wants”, curves etc are all a man needs……… but seriously ladies – be you, be proud of who you are and don’t aim to change your body for a man, or a girl hehe.

I logged onto Facebook earlier and saw my best friend had posted this status and I was like You go girl. She is the opposite to me, has the most (in my eyes) the amazing figure. She said this:

“So apparently a ‘real woman’ supposedly according to much of society is a lady who is curvaceous and of a larger size? What about those who may be smaller than the national average clothes size of 12/14 does that make us not ‘real women?’ Not considered as feminine because we may be lacking in a few extra pounds? No we are all women whether you’re big, small, round or tall. I’m all for equality and acceptance no matter of your appearance and embracing our inner beauty and confidence because that’s what it’s all about, but we’re still not there yet. Since when is it ok for larger girls to make smaller girls feel inferior by referring to them in such a belittling context, because I guarantee you if a parade of skinny girls sauntered about declaring themselves as ‘real women’ and celebrating their smaller frame over other sizes there would be uproar! It’s wrong we are all women together and should never make one size seem more or less than another. And as for that song ‘all about that bass’ it is not ok to refer to people as ‘skinny bitches!’ It is no different to calling people ‘fat bitches’ both are so wrong. Celebrate all sizes without needing to single out or put down a certain appearance in the process and claiming its shameful to look that way. We are ALL beautiful majestic and mysterious creatures. Rock on bitches ‪#‎spreadkindnessnotjudgement‬

I just thought, wow that is so true. Who am I to think that because the media represent girls having the perfect figure with curves etc that is what the person that I desire wants. Who am I to judge another girl in having a “bigger body” or be jealous of a “thinner body”. Imagine if we were all the same, imagine if we all were bigger girls or smaller girls. That would be absolutely boring and dull. Everyone has tastes, whether it be you like a blonde person, brunette, auburn, red hair, white hair, black skin, asian, indian, black,covered in tattoos, piercings, short, tall etc….. in the end……………. we all shit, cry, are sick, blink and breathe together. Hahaha!!

I know full well that I judge girls and I absolutely shouldnt, I should feel comfortable in my own skin. But I believe that it is also jealousy, I am jealous that they have their figure, that hair, those boobs etc – but at the end of the day, there’s nothing wrong with me. I am not unwell, I can walk, talk, see, hear, breathe… I am now changing my perspective to – ‘as long as I am happy, who gives a shit as to what I look like, the people that care are going to stay and the people that don’t, they’re not worth your time’

I saw Zoella and Louise speak about this previously and to put it into perspective, I am Louise and my friend is Zoe. LOL and I could absolutely see what they were talking about. Have a look at this – click on the photo 🙂


Anyway after such a shit day, I found this photo and I thought I had to share it because it’s just so true. I have previously spoken about this topic before and you can read about this here  and a girl power post.


Finally my friend had mentioned previously the “kind campaign”. Please have a look at their website, it’s all about girls being kind to each other especially at school, because its one of the toughest times for a girl, the hormones, the fake friends, the bullies and of course peer pressure. Here’s their website.  It’s also a great website to gain information and background for help on feeling great and having that confidence. 

Let’s stick together girls.


My Favourite Youtubers.

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My brother first introduced me to “Youtubers” and to be honest every day now I look forward to a new Youtube update from my favourite Youtubers. It is weird to think that some of these are younger than me but most are my age and it kinda makes me feel a bit sad because they are living one amazing life, in which something I could easily do but I have no confidence to do it! It takes a lot of willingness, determination and the best personalities in order to gain as much recognition as these guys have. Someone at my work the other day was at a Beyonce concert and in a photo of her’s was Caspar Lee taking a selfie, I reacted “OMG its Caspar!!” and I even sent her the selfie of his but she had absolutely no idea who he was. Do you know how hard it is to explain to someone who doesn’t understand the You Tube world who these people are, and to not come across like a complete weirdo – just following people’s lives. I thought I would talk about my favourite You Tubers and if you have any that I haven’t mentioned or you think I may like, PLEASE send me their links because I am always finding new ones 🙂

I truly think that they allow me to escape from everything, to not think about the worries in my life – for them to open up about theirs, to go through their life moments, their emotions, relationships and their memorable moments I believe is just wonderful. Although I have not been able to find anyone I know apart from my brother who watches Youtubers, I know that there is a huge fan base out there, in which I can quote from one of their clips and someone would know exactly what the hell I was on about.

So thank you very much…… really. All the photos of the Youtubers below I have found on Google and I have edited myself with either their catchphrases or something that they are known by with little logos. I hope they see them 😀


large (13)My first ever Youtuber that I ever followed was the gorgeously beautiful Zoe Sugg aka Zoella. She is absolutely adorable, her little videos are so pretty and it helps that she is lovely too! I am very jealous of her hair, her now new flat and what she looks like. I love how open she is with her anxiety and panic attacks as I have had them in the past, her hauls and beauty/make up vlogs have also allowed for me to buy things I wouldn’t buy before and I love that. I just love her enthusiasm, even when she is feeling down the vlog is still great! She writes her own blog as well which is really detailed and very fun and girly, if you wish to check that out click >>>>>>>> LITTLE ONE <<<<<<<< or if you wish to check out her videos click >>>>>>> I LOVE ZOELLA <<<<<<<< Make sure you check out her second channel More Zoella too!!

large (14)Next is Mr Alfie Deyes, he is one cheeky charmer who has charmed the likes of Zoella and they are an item (which is super uber cute!!!). He’s funny, a gentleman, cheeky and of course a lovely representation of a great English man. He talks about daily life in Brighton, what he has been up to and has a lot of funny collabs. Watch out for how many times he says “so”, he’s picked himself up on it as well. Although he does not vlog everyday he does use his Tumblr to update his goings on so if you wish to see that click here >>>>>>> WASSUP GUYS <<<<<<< and of course his lovely youtube videos >>>>>>> POINTLESS BLOG <<<<<<<

large (20)Next is someone who I absolutely love, Louise!! I am often told that I am pretty much like Louise in many ways than one and I find that an absolute huge compliment. She is so funny, beautiful and an amazing role model for anyone out there. She is very honest, emotional, funny and with her favourite “chummy” best friend Zoella they make the best videos. Watch out for her gorgeous little munchkin Darcy who has been nicknamed as Baby Glitter and with her lovely husband Matt they make a wonderful family. She is often very honest and I do love that about her, especially with her weight, diets, the way she looks etc. I don’t know whether because I went to Uni where she lives I have an even stronger connection to her, because I watch her videos and think oh god I have been there, oh wow imagine if I went past her loads in the past! She too has a beautiful blog >>>>>> CHUMMY <<<<<<< and of course her weekly vlogs >>>>>>> SPRINKLERINOS <<<<<<< Make sure again that you check out her second blog Sprinkle of Chatter.

large (18)Haha so far these have all been linked to Zoe and this cheeky chappy is no exception, he is the younger brother of Zoella and he is just as funny and lovely as he appears in the photo shown above. Joe takes us through his routines of the day, often taking us to work with him being a thatcher, he does amazing impressions of celebrities and public figures and of course often likes to play pranks of his fellow Youtubers. He is hilarious, I promise you. Joe is sometimes involved with Jim Chapman in many scavenger hunts through the Daily Mix challenge and that’s where I actually found out about Joe. Again Joe does not have a blog but he does have a lovely Tumblr so if you wish to check that out >>>>>>> I THATCH ROOFS <<<<<<< and of course his lovely Youtube channel >>>>>>>> MINI SUGGLETT <<<<<<< As always check out his second youtube account too!

large (21)If you want to be flirted with over the internet but also be slightly concerned about someone’s mentality – Caspar is here for you. He is amazingly witty, funny and has many one liners which many would not think of. The first time I watched one of his videos I did think, wow this boy is really awkward and being really strange, but the more you get to watch his videos you realise he’s definitely unique. He’s one cheeky boy and he loves the ladies and the ladies love him. To check out his Tumblr >>>>>>> SOUTH AFRICAN ACCENT YUM <<<<<<< and his lovely funny youtube >>>>>>> MR AWKWARD <<<<<<<< and yet again check out his second youtube too!

large (15)The gorgeous Tanya Burr ladies and gentlemen, she does the most amazing make up tutorials – really easy to follow, beautiful colours and the videos are so cute as she is. When she vlogs about her daily life, she comes across as utterly adorable, naive and just lovely! The love that she has for her fiance Jim Chapman is beautiful and I wish I had a relationship like that in the future. She now has her own make up range out which is nail varnishes and lip glosses, you can either get them online but now Superdrug do sell them – so well done Tanya!!!! Of course she has a really lovely fun filled blog which you should check out >>>>>>> TANYA 4 JIM <<<<<<< and for all those lovely videos I was on about her youtube channel >>>>>> PRINCESS TANYA <<<<<<

large (16)Talking of Jim here he is, what a fine handsome man that he is. Absolutely polite, lovely, comes across as completely and utterly charming and using his English gentlemanliness to his advantage. He likes to challenge himself in a number of videos, talks to his viewers as best friends and we really do get involved with his life. He is a little boy at heart loving all of his comic books and toys but his love for Tanya and how proud he is, is just beautiful to watch over the vlogs. Watch out for him coming up in a new ITV2 programme with Caroline Flack in which he will be a presenter, I cannot wait finally this may show people that I know the Youtube community are great! Currently it looks like he is investigating into a blog, but here is his Tumblr >>>>>>>> BEST FRIENDS <<<<<<< and be prepared to fall in love with his youtube >>>>>> ENGLISH GENTLEMAN <<<<<<< Watch out for other youtube video channels too!

large (17)S-U-B-S-C-R-I-B-E to Marcus Butler TV!! God I love that jingle. If you watch his channel you will know what it’s all about. Marcus’ vlogs are different to all the rest and are often twice a week, he talks about day to day life, he has challenges or he dresses up as Margaret and what a lovely lady he makes. Haha! Everyone knows Marcus by his catchphrase opening up Helloooooooooooo and of course his beautiful quiff and lovely little rosey cheeks. He’s from Brighton so often hangs out with Alfie, Zoe and is good friends with Caspar and Sawyer. He is very open and honest about particular subjects in life and is there for some great advice, watch out for his 1 million subscriber rap though 😉 His website is really cool so you’ll get to learn loads about him >>>>>>>>> HELLOOOOO <<<<<<<< and his Youtube >>>>>>> SUBSCRIBE <<<<<<<< Check out his other accounts too!

louis-coleLouis, he is cool, calm, friendly and he makes you insanly jealous that you are not living life to the full. He updates his vlogs daily and yes daily he never fails. You never know where he is going to be in the world, he is so laid back and after one video you will fall in love with his style and ways. Always positive, loves life, all different cultures, his friends he meets around the world. Each video is introduced by a different viewer and his ending is of course what is shown in the photo above. If you ever want to relax whilst watching a video his are the ones >>>>>>> FUNFORLOUIS <<<<<<< here’s his lovely Tumblr as well >>>>>> LIVE THE ADVENTURE <<<<<<<<

large (19)Finally Jack is my latest edition to my favourite Youtubers I have come across, I have watched his videos before but I think the other guys took over in my life because he didn’t upload for a while. But through playlist live and he is aware of this because he has vlogged about it, he took over Louise’s blog a lot and that’s where I was like…….. I have to subscribe. He is gorgeous, funny, a gentleman and just bloody lovely. If you follow me on twitter you would know that I have had tweets from him, which is just ❤ thank you!!! His videos are seriously funny, they have a great hidden message behind them as well, has done some brilliant collabs and with this one I will put up 3 thinks as he is part of a duo as well, >>>>>> GORGEOUS SMILE <<<<<< and his >>>>>>> OMFGitsJackandDean <<<<<<<< and if you wish to see more of his lovely face Tumblr >>>>>> YUMMY <<<<<

So they were my favourite British You Tubers, yes Caspar is classified as South African but he is often put in the British category. Here are my favourites from around the world.



He is an advocate for fun, being you and living life to the full. His videos are really good fun and always positive – especially the drunken ones with Sawyer and Mamrie, if you are ever feeling down please I urge you to look at them! I think most of the internet would like for him and Troy to get together, they are just really cute together. I really did not know that Tyler is the same age as me, which shocked me as I thought he was a lot younger. He does a lot of collabs which are a lot of fun and comes up with the funniest sayings, very flirty and has a zest for life. His lovely Tumblr which is updated constantly is >>>>>>>> LILAC HAIR <<<<<<<<< and his brilliant Youtube >>>>>>> DUBAI <<<<<<<< I have only just found out he has a second Youtube so check that out if you can, more daily vlogs.

large (22)Here’s Sawyer, the boy that many love and adore! He is really funny, cheeky and often tipsy. Has done many collab videos in the past which often includes a lot of funny competitions between him and the other youtuber, his videos have a lot of games which have become memorable and to top it off he lives with Joey so he often appears in the videos in the background. He is a director so his main website is around that basis please have a look >>>>>>> FILM ME <<<<<<< AND I urge you to check out his Youtube especially the >>>>>> DRUNKEN COLLABS <<<<<<

photoTalking of people who get tipsy, welcome to Mamrie Hart who’s youtube is all to do with making alcoholic beverages with a slice of comedy. She is absolutely hilarious, her facial expressions, her one liners, the love for alcohol and of course her friendship with Hannah and Grace. I personally prefer Mamrie to the other two as I love a drink haha. My brother introduced Mamrie to me and I definitely havent looked back, you always have to watch her video’s twice because there is always a >>>>>>>> DRINKING GAME!! <<<<<<<< she also has a hilarious Tumblr too >>>>>>> HAVE A DRINK <<<<<<<

large (23)Someone who isn’t really into drinking but into being adorable and gaming is Joey Graceffa. I love him as he is exactly the same as my friend from Uni, he has the same laugh I am not even joking even my friend is freaked out by it. Of course it always helps that he is absolutely beautiful to look at, an angel until he does have a bit of drink in him (check out link with Tyler) but his videos are always a lot of fun >>>>>>> WELL HELLO THERE <<<<<< he loves his gaming so please check out his videos (not my thing but I know he does a lot of collabs with Alfie and Shane Dawson and of course his Tumblr >>>>>>> LOVE THAT BEARD <<<<<<<<

large (24)Due to Playlist Live I have only really just been introduced to Miranda Sings, I have heard about her in the past and I have never really “got it” but with the videos that I have seen, I think she is hilarious. If you want to watch something which is quirky, someone who has a difference sense of humour and takes the mickey out of herself through her beautiful self 😉 >>>>>>>>. MIRANDA IS THE ONE <<<<<<<< She is of course a character, so do not take her too seriously!!! Here is her website >>>>> PUCKER UP <<<<<<<<

Really sorry that this is such a long blog but I wanted to do something different, like I said if you have any others that I should be looking at please comment away 🙂